4:00-4:15 pm – Joey and Ava arrive.
4:15-5:00 pm – Family time, decompressing from work and daycare
5:00 pm – Ava eats dinner. We have discovered that by this time Ava NEEDS food or she is one unhappy toddler.
5:00-5:30 pm – Finish cooking dinner.
5:30-6:30 pm – Eat dinner, wash dishes and pack lunches.
6:30 pm – Bath Time
6:45- 7:00 pm – Story time and milk on the Dock-A-Tot.
After her bath Ava helps us get her Dock-A-Tot from the corner of the living room and put it on the floor. This has become her spot for story time. I discovered the Dock-A-Tot after Ava turned one and I definitely wish I had one when she was little. I would have used it when giving her some floor time or for nap time.
I definitely think it will come in handy when she transfers to a toddler bed. I think the side bumpers will help her feel secure in a big girl bed.
Anyhow, we continue reading her book on the Dock-A-tot in the living room and then finish getting ready for bed.
7:00 pm – Brush her teeth, prayers, turn on the sound machine, give her her blanket and stuffed dog, kiss her goodnight and close the door.
Sometimes she cries and stands in her crib. We give her 5 minutes to cry it out. Usually by the end of the 5 minutes she is sound asleep or laying on her belly putting herself to sleep by kicking her legs against the mattress. If she’s still crying after the five minutes (which is very rare) we go in and lay her back down and rub her back for just a little bit. Just enough to calm her down. Then we walk out.
This is a method we started when she was really little. We let her cry it out and waited 5 minutes before going in. Then we soothed her while she stayed in her crib and then left the room once she was settled. If she started crying again then we waited 8 minutes the next time before going back into the nursery. We literally set a timer for this. Each time we extended our wait time (her crying it out time). The first week of this was tough, but then it got much easier. Now, all she needs is 5 minutes and she’s sound asleep. This method is something that worked for us, but I know it doesn’t work for everyone. Every child is different. Ava has never been a cuddly baby (so sad) or a baby that liked to be rocked to sleep (sad again), but looking on the bright side she is able to put herself to sleep which gives my husband and I more quality time together.
Ava has an early bed time because she wakes up anytime between 5:30 am and 6:00 am. We have an early morning. By 6:30 am Ava is dropped off at daycare and my husband and I are headed to work. Her early bed time is really nice because it gives Joey and I time to ourselves before going to bed. Now if we could just teach her to sleep in on the weekends!